Love is a verb

so i'm reading this book that has claimed sold over 15 million copis...

still not totally convinced yet...

but there is this part which i think deserve attention:

...a man came up and said, "Stephen, I like what you're saying. But every situation is so different. Look at my marriage. I'm really worried. My wife and I just dont have the same feelings for each other we used to have. I guess I just dont love her anymore and she doesn't love me. What can I do?"

"The feeling isnt there anymore?" I asked.

"That's right," he reaffirmed. "And we have three children we're really concerned about. What do you suggest?"

"Love her", I replied.

"I told you, the feeling just isnt there anymore."

"Love her."

"You dont understand. The feeling of love just isn't there."

"Then love her. If the feeling isn't there, that's a good reason to love her."

"But how do you love when you don't love?"

"My friend, love is a verb. Love-the feeling-is a fruit of love, the verb. So love her. Serve her. Sacrifice. Listen to her. Empathize. Appreciate. Affirm her. Are you willing to do that?"

~The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People~

and then the book goes on telling people to be proactive. Love is a verb, and reactive people make it a feeling.

文筆

向來欽佩我3舅的文筆。。。就連msn的對話，也讓我贊嘆。。。

王ㄚ華 says:
說的也是，夜已深吾將睡(台灣半夜1點)，代我問候令娘，也轉告她母親近況甚佳，不必掛念。

婚禮的現實面

interesting post by lamb: 婚禮的現實面

第四次

Grouse Grind....一個小時14分... 進步3分鐘 XD

好人占卜卡

“測驗你這一輩子將收到幾張好人卡!!!!害怕知道命運的人請不要輕易嘗試!”



● 你是和藹可親，人人敬愛的類型。可惜你的個性無法長久抓住你的女朋友的心，很容易發生單方面背叛的事。注意你的好友和情人..，好人卡6張GET。

● Brian Chenさんの必殺技は、南斗水鳥拳です！

鬆餅

聽說有見有名的鬆餅叫做： 法朗琪

在中山捷運站旁
每天都很多人
不接受訂位要現場排隊
起碼要排隊一個小時

流水帳越來越長了。。。

postit

新聞上看到的，蠻有趣的

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客滿燒烤

雖然不喜歡吃吃到飽 （人老了），不過看廣告，會想要去吃 :D